[Beloit College, April 2020]

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It was February 2020, also known as the "before times." Gretchen was living in the Williamson Street area of Madison, and Nate was living in Beloit. However, they matched on Tinder even though they both had their settings on "match within 5 miles of me". After talking for a bit, they eventually figured out that this was because Nate had been in town for a concert and stayed at a hotel only a few blocks from where Gretchen's house was. If that wasn't a sign, they didn't know what was!

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After 3 dates the world was turned upside down with the onset of the COVID pandemic. Being pragmatic people, Gretchen and Nate decided to spend spring break together in isolation; thereby reducing the risk to themselves and others while still having the fun that new couples should have in spite of the changing world around them.

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The world at the time wasn't the only thing changing. Throughout this time Nate and Gretchen learned from one another and continued to grow together establishing a cultural foundation for their relationship that continues to this day.

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Of course personal growth doesn't mean you can't have any fun! Since they met Gretchen and Nate have road-tripped to Seattle, and Tennessee (3 times!); attended at least 3 Trampled by Turtles concerts; camped all over Wisconsin and Northern Illinois; adopted 3 gremlins (they're adorable, promise); got motorcycle licenses and motorcycles; bought 2 cars and are working on a house.

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The sense of adventure and growth they share is both a hallmark of their past and a guiding light for years to come. They are both so grateful to their friends and family for their love and support and can't wait to celebrate the wedding!